Our Saviors

Our Savior’s Lutheran Church

Camdenton, MO

Commemoration of Mary, Mother of our Lord,

August 15, 2010

 

“What will I be when I grow up?”

 

I.  Can you remember that uncomfortable visit with an older
                relative when you were a child?   You were told to
                “be quiet and mind your manners...because uncle or
                  aunt  is older...and you must be respectful!”?
 
                A)  I think that kind of setup took all the joy out of
                                the time for both the elderly and the children.
                                There was no time to be “playful”...everything
                                was so droll and serious!
 
                                And often...the older person in as much discomfort
                                and a sense of awkwardness as the child would
                                blurt out that crazy question:  “Well....what do
                                you want to be when you grow up?”
 
                B)  Then, they would nod knowingly as we children
                                came up with the stock answers we thought
                                were expected:   “a nurse; a doctor; a fireman;
                                a cop;  a teacher”.....and sometimes, if the
                                relative was more demonstrative...one would
                                get a pat on the head:  “That’s good;  that’s good!”...
                                and that was about the end of any meaningful
                                communication as the rest of us went off the the
                                backyard to dig worms while the adults visited.
 
II.  “ What will you be when you grow up?”   Have you noticed
                they have brought back the question in a new commercial
                that portrays not children...but seniors dreaming aloud
                about what “the rest of the story” of their lives will be:
                “I want to work with kids”...”I want to start my own
                restaurant”;   “I think I’ll start a band!”
 
 
2)
 
                A)  That is also the theme question for today....for Mary of
                                Nazareth...for Jesus, her son....and for us who
                                today name the name of Jesus.
 
                B)  It all starts with a strange visitation.   Martin Luther
                                had a comic take on the meeting of Mary with
                                the archangel, Gabriel which I love to work into
                                my Luther portrayals:
 
                                “Now we might imagine Mary, one of the least of
                                   a downtrodden people...a daughter of a plain
                                  family in a plain town.. In the village of Nazareth
                                  she appeared as a mere servant...tending the
                                  livestock and the house....no more esteemed than
                                  some maid among us who performs her daily
                                   chores.   Her age was probably between 13 and
                                  15 years....
                                 Now, angels prefer to come to people when
                                  they are about their daily work or discharging
                                  their office... imagine Mary, sweeping the
                     floor of the house....when a young man...
                                  the angel appears to her:
 
                                  ‘Hail Mary....full of Grace...the Lord is with thee!’
                                    Now, this may be fine Latin...but I ask you...
                                    is it good German? (or English?)  Would any
                                     ordinary person say this?  Your person on the
                                    street knows what a purse full of gold is... 
                                     but, what about a ‘ girl full of grace?’....If I were                                          to write really good lines here, I would rather say:                                              ‘God bless you, dear Mary...liebe Maria...for this                                         word,  liebe, comes right from the heart!
 
                                      God bless you, dear Mary, for you have a gracious
                                       and loving God!  No woman on earth has been
                                        shown this favor....you shall conceive a  son...
                                        and he shall be great.... the son of the most
                                        high!”
3)
 
                III.  There was not too much speculation here on the part
                                of Gabriel, God’s messenger, on what Mary would
                                be when she grew up!   In those days...and in those
                                places we would assume that someone like Mary
                                would have few prospects...being linked as a woman
                                to the household of her father...and then her
                                husband...her destiny to serve that household and
                                make sure the lineage continued in children.  That
                                was about it for her prospects.
 
                                A)  And then....the miraculous.... God in the angel
                                                is proposing that she step outside of that
                                                box...I mean WAY outside of that box!
 
                                B)   Her family was in the process of arranging
                                                a marriage for her.   She shows up pregnant
                                                by a man not her betrothed....shame on her...
                                                shame on the family...and an instant death
                                                sentence to remove that shame.   The most
                                                logical thing to assume here is that she was
                                                only thirteen or so and didn’t fully understand
                                                what was happening and all of its implications.
 
                                                That may be so...but that demeans her:  “She’s
                                                only a woman;  she’s only a child;  she is a
                                                nobody”;   why would anything be going on
                                                in her life worth paying attention to?
 
IV.  That’s logical thinking...it makes sense in its day and age...
                but it is not thinking outside the box....and that is often
                where God acts!   Remember the prophet’s words:
                “My ways are not your ways, says the Lord!”
 
                A)  I remember a kid I went to school with.  He was the
                                most cocky, self- involved person I think I knew in
                                school.  He seemed to have little heart for anyone
                                but himself.   We were all surprised when he did
                                not try to avoid the draft later, but joined up and
4)
 
                                found himself stationed in Viet Nam.  Most of us
                                thought he would never have gotten there... his
                                attitude alone was something that should have
                                marked him in boot camp as someone really
                                dangerous in combat...both to himself and others.
                                We fully expected that he would make every effort
                                to save his own skin when the chips were down.
 
                B)  But, something happened, indeed.  That man came
                                home from the war...he had some nerve damage
                                in his face from some shrapnel...but otherwise,
                                he was physically sound.    News didn’t reach us
                                through him, but soon there was a report of his
                                bronze star and two field promotions.   He himself
                                said nothing....we had to read it in the papers....
                                How he pulled four other men out of danger in
                                a firefight after they had been cut off and wounded...
                                Somehow, master sergeant Jones (that’s what I’ll call                                                 him)....who seemed like he had waded in over his                                  head...proved to be the right person in the right                                                             place.....who could have guessed it... that the
                                high school pain in the rear would turn out to
                                be a hero?
 
V.  Mary grew up fast...and she became the agent of God’s
                great plan to redeem all of humanity....pretty surprising
                when you think of her in the kitchen with that broom!
 
                A)  What would Jesus, the child, be when he grew up?
                                Strangely enough, Jesus became not only what
                                God created him to be...but what his human
                                family molded him to be:
                                1)  Devout and observant of the faith....formed
                                                by humility and service and worship.
 
                                2)  Open to God’s unique leading:  (Mary believed
                                                the angel...Joseph trusted the word of the
                                                angel in his dream.)...outside of convention.
5)
 
                                3)  Submissive to the will of God....protecting Jesus
                                                in infancy...releasing him to follow his own
                                                mission...patient in suffering....and resolved
                                                even in death.
 
                B)   Mary is not the young girl who stumbles into God’s
                                plan...but throughout her life...the one who affirms..
                                “I am God’s servant;  may it be with me as you have
                                    said!” 
 
                                1)  She is the mother who is rebuffed by
                                    Jesus at the wedding in Cana and who is again
                                    rebuffed when she comes with the family to
                                    bring him home from Capernaum.   
 
                                 2)  She is the one who probably behind the scenes                                                      provided what help she could to the traveling                                                                disciples.   She is the one who stood at the foot                                                             of the cross and saw the dream of her youth                                                      “die”.
                                3)   She is the one who cradled the lifeless body
                                     of her son as she had lovingly cradled it for
                                     the first time in the cattle pen some thirty
                                      years before.    What would Mary be when
                                       she grew up?  Just what her son grew up
                                       to be, a faithful, suffering servant.
 
VI.  And now...the question comes down to us who name the
                name of Jesus:  “What will we be when we grow up?...
                when we grow up into the stature of the Lord Jesus?
                We have so many examples of people...even ones who
                seemed to be off the path...or those who came to it
                later in life....and some who just carefully plodded along
                the way their whole lives.
 
                  A)  A man in one of my parishes was retiring from the
                                insurance industry.  He was from a farming
                                community, kept a “weekend farm” and restored
6)
 
                                John Deere tractors and other farm implements....(no
                                red tractors, thank you!)  Strangely enough, as he
                                anticipated what he was now going to do when he
                                “grew up”, he came to me and asked if there was
                                anything in the church he could do?
 
                                I didn’t have to miss a beat....I had seen him in action.
                                He had the skills and the heart to be part of the
                                Mission Builders program where skilled craftsmen
                                travel to locations to help churches and other
                                church agencies put up or finish their buildings.
 
                                That fit so well, he and his wife traveled in their
                                motor home with the tool trailer for about 10 years.
 
                                And now, I hear that that experience put them in
                                the forefront of leadership for Lutherans who went
                                in to rebuild in New Orleans...and besides this, he
                                still works with Habitat for Humanity.  He has big
                                scrapbooks of pictures of every building, every
                                cleanup, every restoration they have done in
                                fifteen years.  He sure “grew up” into the man
                                God created him to be!
 
                B)   Luther said:  “When God calls someone...he calls him
                                to come and die”.....to die to self so that God may
                                call out the true self who will serve God in
                                faithfulness forever.   What will we be when we
                                grow up?   Listen as Mary did for the angel voice...
                                it will guide you.   Do not be afraid....you are favored...
                                you are God’s children...still in training...always
                                becoming....still marked for good things!
 
                                Step out....dare to be different.... Blessed are you!
 
                                AMEN.